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5 Steps to Shift Habits of Perfectionism and People Pleasing
Perfectionism and people-pleasing aren’t bad habits—they’re survival strategies rooted in patterns of emotional outsourcing learned early in life. When you’re conditioned to regulate your nervous system through other people’s approval or needs, it can keep you stuck in cycles of over-giving, self-doubt, and disconnection from your own truth. Shifting these patterns isn’t just about changing…
Read More4 Mindset Shifts for Stressful Times
These 4 mindset shifts for stressful times can make a big difference when it comes to staying engaged with intention instead of reactivity. Compassionate accountability helps us embrace our humanity while challenging our status quo. Here we’re focusing on simple, practical tools, and encouragement as we navigate these difficult times. In this episode of Mindset…
Read MoreEmpathy Isn’t the Problem: Untangling the Myths
And Staying Engaged Without Burning Out Empathy isn’t the problem—but lately, some voices claim that it is, arguing that empathy leads to irrational decisions or even “civilizational suicide.” If you’re someone who cares deeply, you probably reject the idea that empathy is a threat to society. In fact, you likely believe we need more empathy…
Read MoreBest Guide on How to Know What You Want
Finding Your Path to a Meaningful and Fulfilling Life by Valerie Friedlander Are you struggling to figure out how to know what you really want in life? If you’ve ever felt lost, uncertain about your direction, or unsure how to find your path, you’re not alone. For over a decade—even before I became a coach—I’ve…
Read More3 Steps to Building Self-Support In Your Work
3 Steps to Building Self-Support in Your Work is essential for anyone experiencing any level of career instability. Whether you’re questioning your path and considering a career change, dealing with layoffs, or feeling the strain of unclear goals and shifting expectations, these practices can provide a supportive space to discern your next step. Cultivating your…
Read MoreWhere Do We Go From Here?
Reflections on this Podcast and Layoff Uncertainty “Where do we go from here” is a common question when we encounter a crossroads in life. Whether a transition is big or small, each point is an invitation learn more about yourself and choose what is aligned for the person you are becoming. This episode engages two…
Read MoreUnlocking Your Leadership Energy
How to Shift from Stress Response to Intentional Action Unlocking your leadership energy isn’t just for executives—it’s for anyone navigating life’s complex challenges. In this episode, I dive deep into how we can shift from reactive stress responses to intentional, powerful action. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by uncertainty or stuck in unproductive patterns, I’ll share…
Read MoreIdentifying Your True Goals: Finding and Leading from Your Truth Center
Identifying your true goals is the starting point to transforming your life from the inside out. In this powerful episode of Mindset Unlimited, I sit down with fellow Chicago-based life coach, Amy Pons, to unpack the powerful journey of breaking through learned limitations and discovering your authentic path. We explore how to lead from your…
Read MorePlanting Seeds of Hope: Mindset Strategies for Women Leaders in a Time of Uncertainty
Planting seeds of hope is a radical act of resistance in the face of oppressive systems and during times of uncertainty and upheaval. When fear threatens to paralyze us, hope becomes our most powerful tool. Spring invites us into the sacred work of seeding dreams—not for immediate gratification, but with generational wisdom. We may not…
Read MoreVulnerability and Tending to What Is Important
Vulnerability and tending to what is important is particularly critical in a chaotic time. After my wrapping my interview with Cher Hale, she inquired into my next steps around demanding attention. As listeners who gift me your attention, it seemed appropriate to share with you my own in the moment reflections on attention and what’s…
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